Why is our generation so unhappy?

Maximum people with this expression i saw nowadays-

“i never thought he'll unfriend me, i thought he'll forgive me but he didn't, i never expected that he'll move on”, my cousin sister told.

“i text you day and night but you don't even text me when you get free, it hurts me a lot”, my friend's beloved girlfriend complained t him.

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Why is our generation so unhappy?

“they didn't even ask me for once, although i would have not gone but atleast they should have asked me”, my junior cousin showed her sadness through call.

“me and my teacher expected 97marks in math's, but unfortunately i scored very less”, my classmate said with a sad face.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

Because of the Expectations.

“It was my birthday but he didn't wish me exactly at 12am, i thought he will because i have wished him on his birthday”,my junior said making a sad face.

you expect someone to behave the way you behaved with them, you expect someone to help you because you did when they needed, you expect someone not to talk with anyone else except you, you expect someone not to love someone else, what not you expect?

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“how mean my friends are, i give them party everytime when they ask but they don't, I'll ghost all of them”, one of my cousin said.

It doesn't matter whether what you expect is small or big, the thing is that you're ‘expecting’. And then these expectations cause you disappointment, they bring you frustrations.

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